I am I kinky? Being in this sex, orgasm, pleasure positive sphere of information has exposed me to many things I would typically judge or steer clear of… “kink” being the over-arching category…. think handcuffs, whips, ropes, dominance, role play, fetishes, etc. The way I just listed that was very PG… which doesn’t really bring to bear the essence of kink… think watching your partner have sex with someone else or using bodily fluids in different ways during sex, even feeling pain from impact play. HA! But kink is “normal” for so many. Again, no judgements here.
So I decided to take matters into my own hands and answer the “Am I kinky” question. I took the erotic blueprint by Miss Jaiya (a sex and relationship coach), and it turns out I’m the “SENSUAL” archetype. My kink is feeling protected and taken care of and dominated by my partner. I want it slow and long and want him to set the mood and tone. I’m turned on by candles and lighting and smells…. as if I’m being swooped away on vacation only to have passionate pleasure filled sex.
Having fulfilling sex… solo or partner is embracing your kink and bringing it to fruition (albeit safely). I just starting sharing my kink desires with my husband and he was turned on by it…
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