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I am I kinky? Being in this sex, orgasm, pleasure positive sphere of information has exposed me to many things I would typically judge or steer clear of… “kink” being the over-arching category…. think handcuffs, whips, ropes, dominance, role play, fetishes, etc. The way I just listed that was very PG… which doesn’t really bring… Read more

Just speaking from the heart today. As badly as I want to orgasm beyond the 60 second clit induced experience, I can’t get myself to practice this week. I don’t know why. Here’s the truth… just like EVERYTHING ELSE…. Sex, pleasure, orgasm all require work. You would never expect to speak a new language without… Read more

I’m watching “How to build a Sex Room” on Netflix. I like it! It’s fun. It’s easy to watch. It’s a little kinky, but not enough to make a newbie avert her eyes. These couples are brave. How did Netflix find them!? The show is simple but well produced. They make the content relatable enough… Read more

The last few days I’ve spent educating myself on female orgasm and putting the new “knowledge” into practice. Researching female orgasm is fun and awkward. Why? The content leaders in the space are kind of “out-there.” What do I mean by that… I mean, they so advanced in their orgasm practice that they are hard… Read more

After such a physical practice yesterday I anticipated today being more focused on reading about enhancing orgasms. Spoiler Alert— it was a spicy night. The day started as planned. I was listening to a few podcasts featuring Susan Bratton (intimacy expert to millions). She confirmed over an over that most women don’t climax during intercourse,… Read more

I’m back! It was a week of holiday fun with family in too close of quarters to be “orgasmic” in the traditional sense. But…it certainly wasn’t a week wasted. It gave me the opportunity to find pleasure in things I historically wouldn’t think twice about. Like… Hot paraffin wax on my hands and feet during… Read more

OMG Yes. Have you heard of it? I signed up many years ago (maybe 2015)… I think I paid $12 to access videos of women coaching other women on how to orgasm. I logged in once or twice and completely forgot about it. The Universe always has a plan. This morning I logged in and… Read more

Jade Egg. SO many people swear by it, so I gave it a whirl this morning. It took 10 minutes to warm my body up enough to let the egg in. I’ve been told you slurp it up (that’s graphic but hey…), not entirely sure I was at “slurp” status but it was a welcomed… Read more

After enjoying orgasm the way I know best (see day 3), I felt compelled to read more on orgasm… I know deep down my capacity for intensity, deep pleasure is far beyond what I’ve experienced to date. AND I WANT THE FULL POTENTIAL. I WANT IT ALL. In pursuit of that, I spent time with… Read more

45 minutes of pleasure today. And yes, it included orgasm… While it was delicious for a few seconds, I desire deeper more powerful longer lasting orgasms and that’s the whole point of this journey (ie the only reason I have this blog). SO today was a good reminder that I’m not rushing to orgasm and… Read more