I’m watching “How to build a Sex Room” on Netflix. I like it! It’s fun. It’s easy to watch. It’s a little kinky, but not enough to make a newbie avert her eyes. These couples are brave. How did Netflix find them!?
The show is simple but well produced. They make the content relatable enough that it starts to shift your perspective on sex. For example: If someone asked me, “Do you want to be handcuffed during sex,” I would respond, “NO.” But the show introduces you to the concept of handcuffs and other kindy play— ropes, feathers, whips, tantra chairs, dress up— in a way that I’m no longer opposed… well willing to try in the right environment with the right communication upfront. Actually I’m getting excited thinking about it.
I’m not jumping to build a sex room… YET… but here are two things I definitely align with:
- Sex is more available and more fun if you have an environment that promotes it. Hence the need for a space dedicated to sex.
- The way your environment looks, smells, and makes you feel definitely enhances or detracts from sex. That’s why it’s easier to really enjoy sex on vacation or in a hotel.
XX me